Darkness Is An Opportunity For Wisdom

Jul 1, 2013 by Tatianna

 

Happy Monday my Lovies,

May this week bring you happiness, productivity and joy! Today I have a written talkchology for you guys. I found a quote that I really liked and I wanted to share it with you guys, as well as share some of my personal life’s wisdom and thoughts.

“It is precisely because we resist the darkness in ourselves that we miss the depths of the loveliness, beauty, brilliance, creativity, and joy that lie at our core.”
— Thomas Moore

What I want to talk about today is very beneficial to our inner as well as outer world – the dark side of our selves. From my personal experience and my intuitive higher perspective I realized that this is the side of us which helps us evolve on all the aspects of our life the most, this might not sound very fun to our physical self but to our all seeing and all knowing self it’s an opportunity to grow. There is no physical being in existence  that can always be light, and always be positive 100% at a time, because to know what light is, we need know it’s opposite, in fact we choose it our selves, but that is a whole other story.

Now, most people when they begin to experience dark moments of them selves they try to do everything possible to fight what they are experiencing. I’ve done that plenty of times my self, but what I’ve learned is the more you try to escape and fight against your dark side, the more it persist on being there, and it gets worst overtime, and worst and worst, until you stop fighting and allow it to happen, allow it to run it’s course with full acceptance.

A good example for me was when I used to deal with severe panic attacks, the more I tried fighting them and covering them up with medication and distract my self from them in every possible way I could, the worst they got. I was at my breaking point, a very low period of my life when I decided to stop running away and try something different. I knew I had to face the facts, and stop resisting. I started asking questions, digging deep within my self, I had to face all my fears and denial. It was one of the most painful experiences for me, because my panic attacks were only the side effects of everything I was trying to cover up. From that experience I’ve evolved into a whole new being. Once I made a decision to allow things to just happen and I stopped fighting, that was the moment my life began to change instantly, my panic attacks became less frequent, now I cant’ even remember when was the last time I’ve had one.

Now, I live in quite a bit of awareness, of course I fall out of it from time to time because I am still a human in a body, but now I completely understand how struggle works and every time something happens in my life, I know exactly how I’ve attracted that into my experience and why.  Every time I’m faced with something dark, instead of fighting a negative situation or a feeling, I ask my inner guide questions and I just allow it to happen. This helps me dig into deeper layers of my self and bring them to the top, work through them so to speak.  I started looking at negative situations as an opportunity to learn something new about my self and the world around me, I take it as an opportunity for personal expansion.  The world is quite different when you take off the pink glasses and begin to see it form a perspective of your soul. Everything around you is just a reflection of your inner world and thoughts, the outer world mirrors your personal struggles, problems, deep rooted beliefs, insecurities etc.

When we get in touch and align our selves to that life creating stream, in other words the perspective of our soul, we begin to see outcomes to many different situations all at once, without struggle, without resistance, so you begin to deal with things we call “the negative” much differently, because you understand why it’s happening and why you attracted this experience into your life in the first place.

With that feeling you also become completely aware that you are exactly where you need to be at each moment of your life, there is no more questioning am I doing the right thing, you just know you are.

I wish you a beautiful week my Lovies,

Love,

Tati

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